I will comment on what everyone one has said, but I was taking time to really digest evrything and get my mind right...more on that when I am ready...

I just have to say...detaching is hard when the MLC spouses do things that you think are odd...

My H today stopped by my job to drop off a paper I needed for taxes. This has sent me through a loop, as we have more than enough external contact daily when he comes to get the kids...my head is just spinning right now...he barely ever stopped by my office before, and I would think that would be the last place he would want to visit....strange, and I can't help wonder what that was all about...


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life