My two cents on ADs (which I've taken two types of and come off of twice): check out books on cognitive behavioral therapy, such as the idiot's guide series. The knowledge in them seems more of a real, lasting, cure than the bandaid that ADs are.
My favorite book is Feeling Good. It helped me out a lot. I couldn't be on ADs cuz I was nursing (although I found out later on the board that I could've taken some mild ones...)
Keep it up AS!! Your definitely allowing her to live her life and living yours!!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017