Wife has really been pushing my buttons and it is difficult to stay calm. There is definitely an OM in the picture now and I think that her relationship energy is going toward that. I have managed to stay calm so far, but I am worried that I will break down. Because there are no kids in the picture I have decided to go dark and I am mostly staying away from the house. With the only communication that we have related to business matters it is difficult to see how things could improve. She will be moved out in a few weeks and then there will be really no reason for me to contact her. Divorce will be simple and not require us to meet. I am working on myself. I am only employed part-time right now and I cannot afford a coach.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)