I consider my W had an EA while physically separated. The OM then made a pass at her and she broke it off. I believe she had another one while separated under same roof.
Mach1. Yes and know I see your frustrations.
JP. You need to stop immediately focusing on your W. Please do this for yourself. I understand you are in panic mode. The more you panic the more you push her further away.
You gave up the passwords. That is GREAT. You can't control if she is having another EA.
What I use to do when I couldn't sleep was get up at 545 am and goto the gym and workout for 2 hours so at night I was so dead tired I could sleep. I also did CHI GONG breathing every night. See if you can find a local Raike or Chi Gong specialist in your area.
You must GAL every night. Do not worry if your W is cheating or not. She is going to do what she is going to do.
Are you still under the same roof? IF so I would come home and do father duties and then split after.
You are on what we call the "net hamster" wheel. I made this a DB forum phrase. You are only skimming posts and missing valuable information. You are so CODEPENDANT on your W right now you are making yourself ill
