That's just it. My W has never been one to initiate. She has been making an effort to be clear that we will "be friends", nothing more. She says she simply doesn't have the feeling of love for me any longer, says it's been gone for a long time and it is too far gone to get it back. She even made a point of writing in my birthday card that she hopes we can always be friends.......then she gets drunk and stands next to me with her arm around me. It threw everyone for a loop. including me...Just confusing!
