Unlearning conflict avoidance 3

[Occy01]

Hi luke. As you know, my W has bought a new place, as I didnt want to move. I told her that it was her decision to D so why should i leave my home? We we co-owners of our house. As co owner, im pretty certain that she cannot force you to leave. The co owner who wishes to stay must buy out the other co owner. We had an agent ( or 2 or 3) who put a value on our house, then W and I agreed on a value, based on those estimations. Counting in the debt we had on the house, 'profit tax' ( typical sweden!! Tax paid on the profit made from 'selling'), we arrived at a price.

I have just gone through all this, and finalised todaywith the bank. As soon as i ppay up, i am the sole owner of the property ( well, the bank is!!)

Thats basically it. Hope this answered your question. Can give you more on how it works over here if you need it....