2.4...first of all...breathe dude.....you are in panic mode.
Second of all, take time to answer all Spartan's questions and post them here.
Third...get out, exercise is best, especially for guys. Love your kids, keep mouth shut, stop snooping and BREATHE!!!!
You are right I am in panic mode. I am dying to ask, and living in the same house it is killing me to look at her and think she has been with OM. But know that if there is a slightest chance that its innocent, this will write off any chance of this working out for me. I should not have snooped, I had no reason to doubt, but i did (and by the way i only know that the location was not where she claims to have been, i have not seen concrete evidence of who she was with) - and now i am in this mess. The reason I want to know is, if she has i don't know how i feel about it, if knowing would give me that final reason to give up then its better sooner than later. However, i am assuming she has and i still want to fight, so maybe i have answered my own question there.
I will get onto spartans questions tonight and try to give more info.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.