Are you saying that she doesn't know yet? What about your other girls?
Pretty much. W really wanted to not tell the girls until after Christmas. Then it kept getting pushed back for whatever reason she needed.
The two older D's know something isn't right and they have both spoken to me about it since they know W has moved out of bedroom. D23 asked point blank if we were getting D and I said it looks that way since your mom has asked for a S. D22 heard D23 tell one of her friends that she doesn't think W & I will last thru this year; which is a pretty good assessment.
D13 is still buying W's excuse that she can't sleep on the bed and is more comfortable on the couch. But, she has also noticed that W has moved into the spare room, so...
I spoke to BIL a few weeks ago. W did tell him she asked for a S and that I agreed. She told him she has to stay at the house until we get the cruise paid for that W and D13 are going on in October. That should be paid off in June.
But based on recent events, I would like to tell all D's what's going on very soon so no one is particularly surprised. To do that W & I need to discuss this stuff and come to an agreement. When we last spoke about it, we agreed on everything, I just want to make sure that's still the case.
