The Lost LBS

[MontyL]

@Cadet - Thank you, and understood, although short posts, more like a conversation, elude me.

@AnotherStander - you're right, that was anger and bitterness. I've gotten past it. Another 3 weeks into A/D, I'm doing fairly well, the house doesn't bother me. Picturing her face does... I have a ways to go.

All - GAL is slow in coming between work and travel distances to leisure time activities. If I wanted to go bowling or skating, for instance, either one is an hour round-trip, and in opposite directions. Detaching is close, only my closest friend sees that I'm not there yet.

Just as difficult is finding help... the counselor recommended by little sister and accepted and seen weekly by WAW, although understanding SBT, is digging into the past. We'd been seeing her separately, I started feeling ganged up on so I'm looking for another. Hard to find someone who works nights and weekends...

@Virginia - sorry, hard to stop once I begin, and I'd all but given up DB forums waiting for moderation. Thank you.