stumbled across this link cleaing out my computer....quick update on wifes 6 month affair from 3 years ago. Still living in the same house but if not for the 3 kids would have been gone long ago. Sorry what people say on here, reading a book and councling do not make the angst and spite go way, only takes little things to set off one thing or another....it is in my opinion almost impossible to forgive the lies and hateful things that were said and done by her. and to this day she wants to act as if it never happened, she is embarrased by it but no one knows what she did and she wants to keep it that way.
good luck to anyone else who has to deal with the sleepless nights and putting up a fake front for friend and family (who would be repulsed by her actions) - but most of all for my kids i feel sorry that they don't have the parents that love and are affectionate to one another.
just another day living with her DECISION - total BS when people call it a MISTAKE....the mistake was getting caught in the DECISION they make.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
