Seems like calmer waters and the deer feeding is coming along
We ALL have the " I am done", phases, and you either are, or you aren't. Not exactly mind blowing and stunning revelation, but true. I think it allows us to look a little deeper, past the desire to be with spouse, look at ourselves and motivations even deeper, and make that decision.
When people are really "done" I think it is because one of two things have happened:
A) The work is too damn hard, and you give up.
B) The work was hard, but you did it, and realized this is where you are.
When people are thinking of being done, it is another stage of growth, an exploration of what if, that leads to new insights if you have the strength to accept them and let go of the fear of "what if'
Just my .02, which is really .00 or .05 now in Canada...:P
