Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

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Detaching is going quite well and so are my 180s.

I'm pretty early on in my sitch but I do believe I'm already a better person. Still lots of work too do - but I'm getting there.

I do worry that I'll still be here in 4 years time, fighting for my marriage. What do people think about a DBing time limit. So, I say if there is not a decent amount of progress in one years time, then I walk away and stop trying to reconcile. I just don't want to be stuck in limbo forever... Obviously it will depend on how i feel though...

Also if people could give me tips/advice regarding my goals above I'd really appreciate it.

Thank you.