Thanks T!

Originally Posted By: Tallula
Sounds like you are getting clear. I could only imagine after 2 years you may be ready.


Yep, I'm ready for... something, lol. This roller-coaster needs nuked!

Originally Posted By: Tallula
I totally agree with your transparency boundary. That's a deal breaker for me too. There just has to be those kinds of boundaries in an M or you are just inviting trouble!


Very true. W doesn't see it that way. I don't want to try and control her, but, there has to be some boundaries and respect for the M in general. Sexting other men and receiving pics of male genitalia from other men is not something I really feel is appropriate.

And truthfully, I wouldn't ever want to be in a sitch where I felt I needed to check on it, either. That would be a failure as well, so it's kinda like a double edged sword...


Me: 44 ; W: 41
M: 24 ; T: 25
D:23, D:22, D:13
Divorce papers filed