[quote=Mach1] What would it mean to fully embrace what DBing entails ???
To let go of my marriage, to accept that it is over. To stop trying to fix or save it. To focus on me.
JP!!! Focusing on you and letting go of your marriage may just fix it. It also may not but you will be in a better situation if you work on yourself.
You have found the best place to get advice on your marriage. Please use the advice.
Realize that this is a journey that will not end anytime soon.
Also realize that your wife is giving you a gift and you are very fortunate to be getting it. Don't waste it!! She is giving you the GIFT OF TIME. Use it wisely.
You have been told this before but I think it is worth repeating. Your wife is in pain right now. She is confused. She needs space. GAL and DETACH. It was the best advice I got when I came here.
