Sounds like you are getting clear. I could only imagine after 2 years you may be ready.

I totally agree with your transparency boundary. That's a deal breaker for me too. There just has to be those kinds of boundaries in an M or you are just inviting trouble!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D