Wait I just re read my post again and I feel it is ambiguous. I mean to say that WHEN the WAS is from a boken home and LBS is not, THEN there is a little bi of mlc mixed in with walk away.

I think that every marriage has its difficulties, and how you choose to deal with them, or whether you chose to deal with them at all, definitely seems to be related to your own life experience. I feel that people who have parents who are divorced may say they never want their kids to go through that, but they also seem to be the people who most feel that divorce is some kind of solution when you are unhappy, and that the kids are resilient.

That is the stance that my wife and mother in law have taken, whereas my parents and brother and I feel that divorce is not the solution, and that it is a negative experience that will impact my daughters perception of what a family is and how permanent a setup it should be.

Again, just my opinion. I could be wrong in your opinion, but that is ok because we are entitled to our own opinions smile

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017