Part that hurts the most is that he acknowledges that I have changed, but says that its too late. He says it is a slap in the face that i have done this AFTER he has left, and not when i was still with him.
This is the same thing I have heard...I told H that he finally said it in a way to me that I heard it...if I had heard him before I would have changed too...
I am not saying this was the right way to handle it...just what I said.
Sorry you have found yourself here, but there are somgood supports and don't beat yourself upo for mistakes early on