So close I can taste it...

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Indeed it is an interesting argument of mlc vs was. But all I meant was that in either case, the WAS seems to say the same things to the LBS. Thats it. I wasnot saying they are the same. The link I posted was about things that mlc people say, but I have heard almost all of them from my was.

I still dont understand why anyone would be offended. Even if I had said I thought they were the same, its still hard to imagine being offended by it. I mean its someones opinion, so how can it be offensive?

I should be the one who is offended that people are looking for something to be offended by on my threads. But I am not. I am not easily offended and dedonitely not from a comment on this forum.

In my particular sitch I feel there is a little bit of mlc and a little of was.

My wife comes from a broken home, and I think there are unresolved issues. I will throw this out there, and please everyone, dont het offended. But I feel it kay be more common for the WAS to be from a divorcee family, and the LBS not. And so perhaps many times there is a combo of both goimg on.