If I am understanding this correctly, no deal was offered that could be enforced by the court. Therefore, he could agree to pay something now (in order to secure that coveted rubber stamp) and then tomorrow withhold payments which he has already shown a history of doing???
I'm with WH. God sure intervened on that one to make sure you and the children are protected. And I do find the appalling comment interesting. I find it appalling that anyone doesn't find the support of their children of paramount importance. You did nothing out of malice. You know this. You absolutely know this! Being kind and being "classy" doesn't mean that you lay down and not stand up for the support of you and your children.
Sigh. I'm so sorry, NLW. I check in periodically waiting to hear that the divorce was finalized and btw you hit powerball. Wouldn't that be awesome??? Hitting the lottery the day after the divorce in finalized. Hahahaha. I'm praying for THAT.
