AJ you've made a really interesting point about him trying on different personas. He may have fallen for OW#1, and been hurt by that, or not have that relationship measure up to all he thought it would be. So when something happened there (and not sure what, since he is still connected to her too) he started taking on more and more. He bounces between the two extremes of hating himself, thinking he is worthless, and thinking he is so amazing he can get anything he wants. This cycle of using women to make himself feel better about himself, then feeling guilty for doing it (or not getting lasting satisfaction from it) to back to using them again to feel better.
EXACTLY what W was doing, except with OMs, and she is realizing that dynamic now. It is heartening that he is starting to listen to your thoughts, and considering them...keep planting those seeds at the right times, and you know your H's "right times".
Oh I so get the personality split feeling..it's tough, be kind to yourself... T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
