Unsure if i'm making progress

[KarenR]

Dear Hopeful,
When he says that your changes are too late, take it with a grain of salt. You have 2 little ones and every reason to be sure you don't leave any stone unturned. If you are using DB techniques that is great, but working with a DB coach that can help you come with a very specific plan for your situation can make all the difference in the world. He is giving you mixed messages and you need to know the best way to react and interact with him. It sounds like he is going full steam ahead, and the time for you to do something different is now. Take care and I would look forward to talking to you.