I agree Val with your point about us forgetting that the WAS is going through their own emotions too. I really try to remember that when I think about what H could feel regarding his long absences from the kids.

I remain focusing on keeping out of his way while I GAL. I do find it a challenge to create a balance between getting out of his way and maintaining an open channel with the children.

Thank you Val once again. Will keep my head high.


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home