As I mentioned above, I'm out of town for 2 weeks. This is day 5. We've texted and talked via the phone. All logistics or talking about the kids. If there has been anything else, it was because I tried to carry a more normal conversation with her like we used to have. Am I messing up here?
I have been trying to operate more like things are fine lately. Actually, probably for the last three weeks. Nothing physical, but just in our conversations and interaction. The reason for this is three weeks ago we were on vacation and we were sitting together on the sofa and I was rubbing her feet. She mentioned that it was nice. Like old times and it really seemed to make her feel better. She says things are weird between us. I'm trying to change that. However, this really hasn't changed the dynamic, so is it time for another change?
I've read about some of you going silent for months. I'm thinking of going silent except to respond to her contact for the remaining 9 days of my trip. Yeah, I know! This is different for me. Figured I would "press to test".
When doing DR, how long were you guys implementing changes before changing things up again?
Maybe I've got things all wrong here. As I re-read my words, I see I am doing things to get a response. Do I need a change of mind to just doing things and just leave it at that?
Was meaning to bring DR along to read it again, but forgot it at home. #$&*%@!!
This is different for me. Figured I would "press to test".
