But I can't use it...I already told him I was staying the night...
So I need to tell him I have changed my mind...
Also Val...yes it is partially about me and H, he wants to spend the night in the house with S, and I need a break for S, can't it be for two people to benefit, also S will be able to spend time with H too...good for all is what I see...
I am still learning..
So... "I agreed with your idea, I will be staying at my mother's Saturday night."
does that work, we can fine tune it on Saturday afternoon when I leave...
Also Val...he is relocating 3 hours away to another state...it will have to be discussed in more detail in the future for sure...also a long ride for S...plus H will have to come up then go back so we will have to cross that road when we get there...
Thanks for the feedback...
Also got back on unemployment today was on it before S birth after gettign laid off...and applied for a very promising job today that I am excited about...I was not going to return to work before BD because we were to have another child, and then stay at home for that child also...
I am excited but still nervous of the load on me with working and taking care of S, this will be new to me...but in the end it is something I need to do and I feel positive about right now
