NLW- I agree stay your course. You are protecting your children and yourself. It does not matter what H feels right now.

The judge could see through it all and you seem to have been advised wisely. Have you contacted your L since? What was L response to this?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home