What does an implied so there look like, and how does one disagree without it?
This is obviously highly nuanced and I'd have to go back to find some examples. Go back and look at your posts when people made you angry (CV, Cat, etc.), maybe it will jump out at you?
One way to disagree is to state how you feel, or how you interpret, versus trying to state fact. For example, if someone says something you believe is complete BS and makes you angry, you can say:
"You are wrong and your opinions are hateful!" (so there!)
-- or you can say:
"I don't agree with that, and it makes me feel badly to read it"
The first one is about them and their wrongness, the second one is about you and how you feel. No one can debate how you feel about something.
The first one is going to escalate the situation, or shut it down with hurt feelings. The second one might lead to a productive discussion -- "why don't you agree?, why does it make you feel badly?"
I'm positive you know this already so I doubt I'm helping, but you asked and I'm doing my best.
Accuray
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