Ask yourself why -- why are you afraid of her anger?
-- She can get angry at any time for any reason -- She can get angry at you even if you did nothing to deserve it -- She doesn't stay angry forever -- When she does get angry, nothing really *happens*, other than that she is angry
Anger is a human emotion, and that's all it is. Usually when we're afraid, it's because we're afraid of something happening, we're afraid of some consequence. Try and train yourself that her anger has no consequence other than the anger itself.
Her anger is nothing to be afraid of. You can't avoid it, you can't control it, it can't hurt you.
Embrace it, acknowledge it, know that it will pass and you will be fine.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015