Giving up control (or the illusion of it) is a very hard thing to do. It took me a long time to stop asking questions to W. I never felt like I was trying to control her but she saw it very differently than I did. The littlest thing, things you would never think about, were considered me trying to control her in her eyes.
Spartan how did you learn to give up the need to try to control, to know everything?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
