Although you didn't do it, writing your feelings in a letter but not sending it might be a good idea. I wrote letters on the back of our wedding photos and then burned them. Extreme yes, but I have the digital copies in case I want to look at them. It really helped me to let it all go to the universe for resolution. Detaching takes time...you really have to fake it til you make it.
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011