Sorry to hear that the trip was ok - not great.

Unfortunately I'm not surprised by the information you gave us... how do you use it to move forward NOW?

I know you mentioned wanting more time with the kids. Is getting custody on the table for you?

Are there any new 180's for you to explore?

And a response to the apology could have been. "Thank you for the apology. I really appreciate that".

Only say the 2nd sentence if you mean it. I wouldn't go as far as to apologize in return... but validating the action will go a long way - especially if your w doesn't apologize easily.


M(f): 43
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.