This is actually something I've struggled with. I've always considered my W a WAW but I have wondered if its a MLC.

BD was one day after her 39th birthday and followed lots of conversations of "I just wonder what I've one with my life" now she is running every day and spending a fortune on new clothes, shoes and beauty products.

Apologies for hijacking your thread but this is a concern of mine.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013