how about...

I will be staying at Mom's Saturday night.

Simple enough...but I do need to know what time I can return on Sunday...

But he does know I am having a gathering...should I wait for him to cooridnate...giving him time to respond and if he doesn't than we can speak about it Sat at 1pm...

ME:33 H:34
S: 18 months

BD/H left 2/10/2013
14 years together
9 married