My W's detachment has been very unkind, mean-spirited and full of disdain since May. My L believes this is not someone that is detaching at all and is holding onto that anger because they cannot really let go and there is too much emotion. Thoughts?
Undoubtedly, Floyd. If you can arise emotion from her, she isn't completely detached from you. However, negative emotion isn't exactly a good thing. Keep working your 180's. In time, hopefully she will come around.
