My W's detachment has been very unkind, mean-spirited and full of disdain since May. My L believes this is not someone that is detaching at all and is holding onto that anger because they cannot really let go and there is too much emotion. Thoughts?

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.