Plan B

[Tallula]

I'm in a similar emotional place. We arn't in the D process, and a month and a half into S, but my H is really pulling the cake eating card. Romancing me AND OW.

Unfortunately he has really responded to my pulling back. I still have stayed pulled back, even though I ML with him friday night. That's definately not happening again unless OW is out of the picture. But, I do feel that he has never felt that I would actually move on yet. He knows that I will be fine, and am ok with it ending, but not that I am actually more convinced that we will not get back together...which I am.

I don't plan to tell him this, I am just going to take a much stronger stance on OW. No more family time, as dark as I can get. Still kind, but limited contact.

Good luck with this weekend!!