maybe its different where you are. This is the information I have found about Alanon here.
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Alanon information
If you’re not familiar with a program called “Alanon” and you are living with someone suffering from an addiction to alcohol, then this article may be important for you to read. Alanon is a non-profit international organization that utilizes a 12 step program similar to the one made famous by AA. This is a program created specifically for adults who are dealing with a family member or spouse who is battling alcoholism .
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I am not at all comfortable with pursuing this route. My H is not a substance abuser or addict. I don't know how to more plainly say that I do not feel I belong in this setting.
I'm guessing you followed, or someone you love, followed this route and were helped by it. I am glad that this service is there and I know it helps many people.
Thanks for checking in.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
