House for sale. So Sad. Family Breaking Up (pt 3)

[FloydMan]

Was feeling strong most of the day today, but feeling anxious now. There seems to be more interest in the house in recent days. May have offer by weekend. Custody meeting tomorrow afternoon with both L's and W.
No Eeyore, right Ruby?
Focus on equal custody of kids, kids emotions and money and protecting myself is the advice I am getting. I can put on a front as good as anyone, but to be honest I am scared. I negotiate for a living, and have had many tough situations over almost 30 years, but this is the biggest, most challenging and most important of all on so many levels.
My L told me that her L told him ' off the record ' that it came down to my suspiciousness of her and her behaviour after the A that she could not deal anymore. Maybe that speaks to RLA's feelings of being punished but in all honesty I believe that it was inadvertant and I was hurt and protecting my heart. Yes, I needed the reassurance that I was not getting. My problem was she would not deal with the A and wanted to sweep it under the carpet and still be private once we were piecing a year ago. Recipe for disaster I guess. What a shame that A's are. Fixable things become unfixable if both won't follow advice.....and yes to blame....mostly W not following advice on how to handle it and build trust.