my wife just did sort of the same thing. She had close our joint account because it was the only way she could get her name off it. So I got a check from the bank with the remain balance, the check was in both out names, SO.. we had to reopen an account to deposit the funds again. I also received check from the sale of our house that were in both our names and deposited then in there too. We when to mediation and a agreed to use that money to pay lawyer and court fees, Now last week she ask to remove half because she has Money. She took it out this weekend. I struggle with how to respond to this or if I should respond at all
I am not sure of what you should or can do. But like others say to me just know you are not alone