Need to let go

[2chiquitos]

Detachment is neither kind or unkind. Remember you need to detach in a loving way. You have children so you will need to be "friends" if you want to continue to work together to raise your children.

"friends" - not hypocritical, continue to act as if, don't take his re/actions personal, you are on separate journeys.

There are times my friends don't need to know how I'm feeling. Am I being a hypocrit? No.

I'm allocating my feelings in a more appropriate place. I can express myself through writing, physical activity, sharing with IC or friends who will help me with these feelings.

Don't make decisions about money based on emotions. Separate your sitch from how you want to divvy up the money. This is a great opportunity to use what you have learned.

Set aside what you are willing to compromise and what you are not willing to compromise.

When H n I separated our money a year ago, H gave me money for all my bills. There was absolutely no extra money for either of us. So in that respect, we didn't disagree.

It hurt because it was another step in our separation but it was more than anything for him. He wanted to do this to relieve some stress and know that we were taken care of.Same w him moving into an apt.

Hope that helps.