My wife has been in her own place now for three weeks and I have been detaching big time. Anyway, just met with my therapist and mentioned that I still hope I can work things out with the wife and that I am not rushing the divorce. My therapist thinks I need to move forward and take the lead in getting the divorce over and done with so that I can move on. I think she is wrong and it is okay to hold out hope for awhile(with zero expectations of course).
