They aren't. MLC is set off by several triggers and requires a whole separate area of understanding. The fact that you just threw it in here and thought it was funny, really showed how little you UNDERSTAND the dynamics behind why things happen.
Mr Bond can share little more regarding the whole separate area of understanding comment.
I am relatively new to this process and am not sure whether I have WAW or MLC. I tend to think MLC and am trying to learn more.
Initially I was trying to focus more on myself but lately have been trying to learn more about MLC. I think it may help me have more compassion/empathy/patience with what my W may be going thru.
SM34, apologize for the (relatively short) hijack.
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
