rH, you are awesome... I love that analogy!!!

I also remember reading (I think it was on another site) about the analogy of LBS/OP using food.

The LBS is like a steak dinner - more expensive, but also of higher quality.

The OP is like fast food - cheap and easy.

One is certainly more satisfying than the other, don't you think?

Snodderly, I actually needed to hear your advice today, so thank you. I'm having a hard time with (and I know I'm mind reading here) the belief of my H that the OW has been there for him during this difficult time in his life. Gag.

T- you da man - being able to shed some light on what is going on in the MLC mind is huge. For some reason, it does comfort me to think that my H is feeling guilt and remorse. Maybe that's wrong of me, but it's true.

Don't band-aids eventually become dirty and shabby and fall off?

Just saying smile

Hang in there B!


Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."