What would it mean to fully embrace what DBing entails ???
To let go of my marriage, to accept that it is over. To stop trying to fix or save it. To focus on me.
Originally Posted By: Mach1
What is the only thing, stopping you from embracing that ??
Fear. Fear of change and the unknown.
Okay, so you have this fear of change, and the unknown...
Humans ARE reluctant to change, yet they are open to change, and they embrace change....
Why are you so different with the change in your life right now ???
Because humans are reluctant to change, and fear change that they do not initiate.
Example----If your boss walked up to you, right now, and TOLD you that you were going to change from working days, to working nights, you would probably bitch and moan about it, and say some pretty nasty things behind his back about him. This would go on for a while, and one day, a few months from now, you started to realize that you actually ENJOYED working nights, and that it fit your schedule better anyway.
Then, a year from now, the same boss came back to you, and asked you to start working days again, chances are, that you would have the same affect on you. Bitching and moaning because you had to start working days again, the same day shift that you fought so hard for a year ago....
Yet...
If you went to your boss, and ASKED for the night shift to begin with....THAT change is embraced...and NOT feared at all...
Look JP, you did not ask for this change, although it is what it is for now...
And you can fear it all that you want to. Truth is...
The worst has already happened, so fearing it serve no purpose what so ever....
Originally Posted By: JP
I am trying to figure out how to get to EE. I dont have a cc right now and dont know if I can get one, but am trying. Sounds worth the debit. Thank you for your honesty and comments. You are correct, I am reading, but not taking in what is said. Time to force some action.
I'm sure EE would be great for you...
Just make sure that you don't hinge whether or not you can do this, on going to EE.
Becoming the new and improved JP happens when JP decides to start....
