JP- As I told you before, I've been where you are at, many people on here have been.
At the beginning I could not DB for myself and used my kids as motivation. I wanted them to see me walk, and sometimes crawl, through this challenge with dignity, honor, and grace. I wanted them to be able to look back on this time and be proud of their father.
They are looking to you to lead your family through this whether they say so or not. They will feed off your energy.
One step at a time, break it down. Plan some GAL activities even if you don't want to and do them.
I am doing it for my kids right now and although that is beneficial, I think I have to get to where I am doing it for me. Thank you.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
