Mach1, I am sorry, but I'm not sure what I haven't addressed. I will look.
Dude, seriously....
Stop apologizing...
Look, I understand how a person can come to a Divorce Busting website, and do some things that they suggest, and to think that somehow, someway, there is this little Magic pill that one can take to end all of this pain.
I get it...
Reality is, that there is no Magic pill that will take any of this away.
So we think that we get mis-lead, when people here start talking about self work, and self growth, and blah, blah blah...How the hell is this fixing my marriage ???
What I can tell you, is that the marriage that you hanging onto, is gone....to be no more.
It HAS been gone for quite a while, and there is NOTHING that you can do, to bring it back.
What you should be looking at, is taking those long looks at yourself, so that if things were to turn around, and your wife were to look in your direction once again, that YOU are ready for that, and that you are the kind of guy that is not only capable, but excels in those areas that you once were lacking in.
I can also tell by your posts, that you have only about half way, embraced what DBing means. And you are probably still screaming about how unfair it is, that you have to do all of the work, and how the title of the "DB" website is misleading to you.
What would it mean to fully embrace what DBing entails ???
What is the only thing, stopping you from embracing that ??
And although it would seem as though I am angry with you, I'm really not. It would serve me no purpose to get angry with you.
I'm more angry FOR you...
You will never fail me, only yourself, and I actually have more of a problem with that, than if somehow you would fail me...
You are worth more that you are allowing yourself to have, or be.....
