Doesn't even matter. She will have her privacy and talk to OM and confide in him and he will comfort her and I am just lost to it all.
So, that is your final answer huh ?
I'm not buyin it JP...
I'm not buyin this little pity party thing you have goin on. Because you have CHOSEN to be defeated by this.
What are you doing differently for yourself ?
What are you doing differently to make her WANT to look toward you for comfort ?
Until you choose to be different, for yourself, then yes...you will be lost.
Yes, she has chosen to talk and confide with another guy right now.
It doesn't mean it will always be that way.
Nobody knows what the future will bring. Nobody can tell you that you will never be together again.
What I can tell you though...
Is that if you don't pull together, and find a way through this, you are writing your future, and not in a very pretty way.
That is where YOUR choices come into play.
You can choose to be defeated...
Or you can pick your ass up, and really buy into what DBing entails. So that you can start finding your way out of your self-imposed hell....
Your choice JP....
So you wanna do this thing, or what ???
It depends on the day. I feel good and like I can fight one day and dead the next. It is debilitating, I just want to curl up and die. I feel like I fail me, W, kids, You, 25, and everyone. Yes I obviously has a big time issue with the pity, poor me sh!t.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
