I understand that I am informing her that I am sleeping upstairs, but would be willing to compromise on 50/50 her/me up/down.
For the US vacation I think we should just buy the tickets and see how it works out there; we all want to see the parks, so it would be foolish not to.
For the house, I'd be willing to go in on renovation as long as she understands that I am staying in the house. As it happens, interest rates are low just now and expected to rise, to it would make sense to renovate, plus the government, in its support of the building industry, will effectively pay you up to 8k$ each for the labor.
Does that sound like a plan?
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
