Just to add to this. W went away to visit friend this weekend. Although she never went where she said she was going, even though when casually asking her what the place was like acted like she was there. I have not mentioned I know this yet.
It could be she met her friend somewhere else, but did not want to tell me because of the cost of the weekend away, or more likely that she met OM.
My reason for not mentioning is that maybe she need to do this a few times to start to realise that its not the fantasy she thought, also in the past I have been very quizzical about her comings and goings so one of my 180's is to do the opposite. So to tell her i know where she was goes against that.
She has returned very happy, and very pleasant towards me. Which is annoying as it puts me in a place where my mind says things are better, but is it because she is glowing from 'love' from this OM?
I am very confused as to what i want, or need to do.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
