2tp....ah...the old, don't expect this to change anything, here's my rude remark to you...that is my personal fave. Almost as favourite as "Wow, things have been great, we are good friends, we chat, oh, let me pull away completely now."
I digress, but wanted to say I am glad you had fun and offer this: When I was conflicted about something, my H better not have been happy, or my kids. I always drew them into my feelings, because misery loves company. I mean, if I am not happy, then I don't want you guys to be. This was not conscious on my part but it was part of my behaviour for a very long time and at some point, I began to be conscious of what I was doing, but still did it anyway.
There would have been nothing H or kids could have done to diffuse my mood, not by being nice, calling me out on it, etc. The best I can remember is when they ignored it lol!! I came out of funk pretty fast
