I think reliability is a great virtue - though arguably boring - but I think something good to project and apply to your W and people in general. In the context of moving, it seems like helping is reliable, at least to the point that you can take it emotionally. I think loving your kids by helping them move and maybe set up their stuff may be the most important part - your wife's stuff is secondary, imo, but you (sorry to moralize, but I feel strongly on this) have an obligation to love and help your kids through thick and thin, and this moving is part of it.
Never saw the comet - did you?
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
